You have critiqued yourself up and down. You need more willpower.More patience.More time for yourself.More money. Whatever it is, you are trying to be more than you are now. And you are your own most ardent critic. Isn’t that exhausting?I know it exhausts me. Give your inner critic the day off. You are wonderful, Read More

I have been certified as an Equus Coach!!! Thanks to all who were a part of my two-year journey. It took a lot of client hours as well as learning about and working with horses to reach my goal. Thanks to all my clients who let me experiment and try out new things and, Read More

A lot of my clients don’t feel worthy of the money they have. Only they don’t say it that way. They say they are worried that they will lose all of this money they inherited. Someone else earned it and they are afraid of sacrificing all of that person’s hard, hard work by screwing, Read More

My mother-in-law tells me that I DESERVE my new car.I know she means that as a compliment. She is a sweetheart. But I did nothing to deserve this car except save for it.  There are so many people more deserving than me.And I do think I deserve it.But we ALL deserve it.  Having things has, Read More

I see it all the time.In your heart of hearts, you think if I receive something, someone else is losing something.  But most of life isn’t that way.  Take for example your work life.When you get a promotion and other people don’t, it may seem like they have lost out. But it may be, Read More

I was talking with one of my wonderful clients today and she had such clarity, I wanted to pass it on. I was talking about Byron Katie’s work regarding staying in your own business. You can’t change how other people think of you or how people act.  It’s useless because there is no way, Read More

You can change how you think about something. That is how I have made huge, enormous, earth-shaking changes. In fact, to live a life beyond your dreams, I believe you must question your deeply held beliefs. Internal work is amazing. That is the stuff from which epiphanies are made. That said, you can sit, Read More

You have probably heard about the four Colombian children aged 11 months to 13 who survived for 40 days in the Amazon jungle. How heart wrenching and yet how incredible. The tools their mother taught them included what fruits it was safe to eat and how to stay safe from snakes and bugs and, Read More

You have a certain amount of money.That is fact.That is math, not drama. If you want more, you can create more money or spend less.That is math, no drama necessary. It’s just a matter of figuring things out.Trial and error.Curiosity and action. Creating more money means doing the math, trying new things and continuing, Read More

I just saw a post that said,“When your kids get married, decide in advance that you’re going to be the most drama-free, loving, and supportive mother/father-in-law on the planet. You will have tremendous power to either make your kids’ marriages feel blessed or feel stressed.” I love the idea that you can decide in, Read More