If you are worried or concerned about money, think of money as a flock of sheep. You are the shepherd of your money. Feed your flock.Keep track of where they are wandering.If you care for them and nurture them, they may have baby lambs. If they stumble, hire a vet to get them back, Read More

To manifest something, you have to place the order for what you want. It’s like if you go into a restaurant and say, “I’m soooo hungry. I want some food.” The waitress says, “Fine. What do you want?” You say, “I’m really, really hungry. I want to eat.” The waitress says, “OK. What do, Read More

The very top resolution for 2024 from the statista poll is to save more money. I think this is a good reflection of people’s pain point.But I don’t think it’s a good resolution. In fact, there is another money resolution a little further down the list… to reduce spending on living expenses (e.g, food,, Read More

I have been reading a lot of posts online about how people are spending more money this year than last Christmas. They are stressed about spending too much , gifts not being appreciated, cutting off all gift giving and going in debt. Everyone was piling on.I feel curdled just reading it all. I am, Read More

I went Christmas shopping with a friend last night.  Our gift giving styles are very different.Compared to my family, she was buying a lot of presents. And let’s just say that she feels a lot more pressure to “get it right” when it comes to gift selection. That must suck the fun out of, Read More

If you are kind and share what you have, when you get more money you will share more. If you are graspy and greedy, when you have more money, your graspy greedy energy is amped up. Money exposes who you are. If you are an asshole, you will be a bigger asshole. If you, Read More

There are times when you need to slow down and rest.Times when a pause is healing to your soul. But when you are trying to attain a goal or reach out toward something you desire, err on the side of action. Even when it’s not pretty. Try something and fail.Then try something else. We, Read More

Several times this week I ran into people who I thought knew what I do for a living, who then asked me what I am doing these days. ?!? I have been doing this work for over a decade. I obviously have not made myself visible. I have not been vocal about what I, Read More

We have all been there. Difficult conversations about money. Who wants that argument?Or that snide look?Or that silent treatment? It’s easier to put it off. Stuff it down.Gloss over it. But every time you hold back on telling your truth, you make fear more important than love. Boom. You make fear more important than, Read More

I know you feel for the people who are not as fortunate as you. You feel guilty charging for your services or asking for a raise since they are struggling. But taking less money for yourself usually doesn’t even things out.Denying yourself pleasure doesn’t create a just world. Please do give if you can, Read More