A lot of people think that the law of attraction means that you sit in the lotus position and think of things you want and then you are magically showered with money and treasures and all the things you desire.
You just have to want hard enough.
I don’t think that’s how the law of attraction works.
It is awesome to think of things you want. In fact it’s vital to think of things you want.
Unless you spend energy deciding exactly what it is you want in your life, you end up taking whatever comes along.
And then you look back at your life and think of all the things you wish you had.
That’s very passive and perhaps a little sad.
And you sure aren’t going to live your best life waiting for things to happen to you.
But I have a suggestion.
After dreaming your dreams and unearthing your true desires, write those things down.
Then head in that direction.
And when people see you headed a certain way, they will help you along the way.
Some people call it the universe working together to manifest your dreams.
Some people think it’s an exchange of energy.
And some people think our body language and micro-expressions give subconscious cues to other people.
It’s a little like asking for help at a store.
You can tell the salesperson, “No thanks, I’m just looking.”
Most of the time you do that because you are tired of being annoyed by a cloying salesperson.
But if you have a skilled salesperson, and you tell them what you are looking for, you are giving them a chance to help you find the exact pair of black boots you want.
You won’t know the last pair is in the stock room unless you reach out and ask.
You can call it divine guidance or you can call it logical or a bit of both.
Either way…
Hang onto your hats, ladies.