Unconditional Love

Doesn’t that sound heavenly… unconditional love?
It sounds like a big emotional hug because we imagine that it comes from someone else.
We imagine being loved for who we are, no matter what.

No. Matter. What.

It feels like a strong tree to lean against.

But here’s the thing:
It seems like unconditional love comes from someone else.
We are looking for validation from outside of ourselves.

And the truth is we can never feel a feeling because of something external.

All kinds of love, including unconditional love, are an inside job.

And that is really good news!
Because you create your own unconditional love.
Always.

You have access to it all the time.

Any time.

No one else can feel it for you.
Or create it for you.

You are free to love yourself or someone else.
With no conditions.
No asterisks.

And why not?  Love feels incredible.
I don’t see the downside.

You can see the reality of what is happening around you and still feel unconditional love.

It’s not causal.
It’s your choice.

I want to offer you a thought to think… “I love you and there’s nothing you can do about it.”

Or better yet, “I love me and there’s nothing you can do about it.”