Asking better questions brings better results.

I have a lot of grievances.

Why isn’t my husband more interested in my health?
Why doesn’t my son communicate better?
Why don’t the people in my book club read the book?
Why doesn’t someone invite me to join their book club?

But there is a better question.

Instead of asking why other people are doing crazy-ass things, the better, more productive question is to ask…

Why am I all up in their business?

Especially since I can’t actually change someone else.

I don’t mean that I am the problem. 
But by wanting other people to change I am trying to control them.

I only have control over my own thoughts, feelings and actions.

That’s where I can get traction.

Ask a better question, get a better result.

What’s a great question you can ask yourself?